Life in the Between: The Beauty and Importance of the Two-Spirit People
By Katie Redmiles, via First Peoples Worldwide
(Kosmos Note: It has come to our attention that the contributions of Zachary Pullin to this article may not have been properly cited. Kosmos has published Mr. Pullin’s article, in its entirety, here: http://www.kosmosjournal.org/news/two-spirit-the-story-of-a-movement-unfolds/
Kosmos regrets any inconvenience that may have been caused to our readers, Native Peoples Magazine, or to Mr. Pullin.)
Issues on gender and sexuality are on the forefront of human rights campaigns in society today. As a culture, America struggles to accept those who do not fall into the societally-deemed normative categories.
After colonization, and as European culture spread its influence throughout the territories in Northern America, one of North America’s Indigenous Peoples’ most spiritual traditions became distorted: the Native American belief that members of their tribe who embodied both feminine and masculine characteristics were gifted with two spirits.
Since the Indigenous people of America focused more on a person’s spirit to define their character, sexual orientation was not an identity factor. Instead what spirit, male or female, they embodied determined who they were. If both were present, they were seen as especially gifted.
What is quite unfamiliar to dominant culture today is that Native Americans not only raised these “Two-Spirit” members above others, but they understood them as existing not of either gender- as a transcendence of the two. These people would include androgynous male and females, feminine males, and masculine females. “Instead of seeing two-spirit persons as transsexuals who try to make themselves into ‘the opposite sex’, it is more accurate to understand them as individuals who take on a gender status that is different from both men and women,” said Walter L. Williams author of The Spirit and the Flesh.
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Many of the Two-Spirit people would be involved in same sex relationships, which was viewed as perfectly natural and encouraged by the rest of the tribe. In fact, it was seen as an advantage to be married to or in a relationship with a Two-Spirit person, for they were able to take on tasks attributed to both men and women.
In Navajo tradition, a “nadleh” (direct translation meaning “one who is transformed”) person was considered to be an economical asset to have in the extended family and community. Nadlehs would take of care of many of the children and elderly relatives, as well as become the adopted parents of homeless children.
Beyond the Navajo, the cross-gender identity has been documented across 155 tribes of Native North America, and in almost all cases Two Spirits were revered, taking on important community roles including healers, medicine people, visionaries, and caregivers.
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The traditions of honoring people who do not transcribe to one gender or the other has deep roots in the origin of Native American ancestry. There is evidence to the existence and acceptance of transgender and androgynous persons amongst Indigenous people of Siberia, as well as many parts of Central and southeast Asia. The ancestors of Native Americans migrated from Siberia 20,000 years ago, resulting in the continuation of the Two-Spirit tradition in Indigenous communities from Alaska to Chile.
In the 20th century, however, a dark shadow was cast across the Two-Spirit persons and beliefs as Euro-American Christian ideas on sexuality and gender permeated North American culture. The respect for same-sex love, transgender, and androgynous persons disappeared and was replaced with homophobia and a demand to conform to socially accepted gender roles. Many Two-Spirit people became closeted among their community and beyond; some conformed to the roles deemed acceptable; and others committed suicide, feeling unable to be themselves in a prejudiced culture.
As with many communities struggling to regain a voice, the Two-Spirit people are still facing discrimination from outside and within their community today.
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“We face homophobia and sexism from our own people, racism from lesbians and gays, and racism, homophobia, and sexism from the dominant society, not to mention the classism many Native Americans have to deal with. It is important to remember that we Natives today are not the same as the Natives that lived before the arrival of the white man,” wrote Sandra Laframboise and Michael Anhorn in their article for the Eagle Society website.
The name itself, Two-Spirit, was recently decided upon as the best term to call those who lived outside of the gender binary. Originally, contemporary society would call them “berdache”, a term coined by the early French settlers meaning “kept boy.” Not only is the name offensive and forced on the Native People, but it is completely inaccurate to the experience of the Two-Spirits who embody both genders.
In 1990, 13 men, women, and transgender people met in Winnipeg, Canada to find a term that would both encompass the native LGBT+ experience and be accepted by all the tribes across the Native Community.
The reawakening of the Two-Spirit term and tradition proved to be important for the contemporary climate: 2012 experienced devastating rates of anti-transgender violence, as well as structural and interpersonal acts of racism according to the National Gay & Lesbian Task Force report.
There has been violence against Two-Spirit people throughout recent history, such as Navajo Fred Martinez who was a transgender person violently murdered in Cortez, Colorado. A 2011 documentary entitled Two-Spirits tells his story along with the history of the gay and transgender identity in Native culture.
However, there has also been great progress to return the beautiful acceptance of Two-Spirit people in the community. There are a minimum of seven native governments that have now passed laws recognizing same-sex marriage, many of which were passed before the state itself, such as the Suquamish Tribe in Seattle.
Heather Purser was the tribal member behind the wave of acceptance in Suquamish law before the state of Washington. After a year of waiting for action, she took matters into her own hands and appealed to her people to change the laws and allow marriage rights for all members. In the end, they voted unanimously in favor of same-sex marriage, marking the first judicial ruling in the state of Washington. She said, “it was less a vote and more an affirmation of me and an understanding of my struggle.”
Yet, the Two-Spirit tradition speaks beyond the acceptance of homosexual relationships and marriages, defining gender as spiritual, multi-directional construct, which is an even less accepted concept in American society today.
Society has grown more accepting to those who are homosexual, although there is still a gross prejudice against anyone who does not fit into gender or sexual binaries. Those who exist in the between and embody all the complexities of the human experience are still widely discriminated against and unaccepted.
The revival of celebrating Two-Spirit people among tribes is vitally important to maintaining a strong and historically rich Native community, but it can also teach Western societies to see the beauty and truth in gender fluidity.
Breaking away from binaries and embracing the multiple spirits within ourselves is a massive step toward creating a wide community based on acceptance, equality, and love.
(Kosmos Note: Conntent from this article was not properly credited to Zachary Pullin, the original creator of the content from which the previous article was derived. Kosmos regrets the mixup and any inconvenience that may have been caused to our readers, Native Peoples Magazine, or to Mr. Pullin. The new article can be found here: http://www.kosmosjournal.org/news/two-spirit-the-story-of-a-movement-unfolds/)
Well stated article. Wee Wah of the Zuni was sent by the tribe to Washington, DC to represent them in settling a land dispute with a neighboring tribe. He met with the President and was treated with respect and courtesy and was thought to be a Zuni princess, even though Wee Wah was 6 feet tall and has a masculine physique. As a two spirit person Wee Wah dressed in women’s clothing but wore a hairstyle that combined female and male styles. While Two Spirit people took on the gender roles of the opposite sex they could also switch back, so for example in times of war they might take the role of a male warrior. They also transcended the gender roles in functioning as healers and shaman.
Many statements in the post are inaccurate. We’wah is the accepted spelling, pronounced Way-wah. Please see my book The Zuni Man-Woman.
Will Roscoe
Thank you for the interesting analysis on this important issue!
Some of this seems taken from the article I wrote for Native People’s magazine…http://www.nativepeoples.com/Native-Peoples/May-June-2014/Two-Spirit-The-Story-of-a-Movement-Unfolds/ Just FYI
I see the similarities. Perhaps you should contact the author? Or perhaps because the topic itself is fairly specific, you both touch on extremely similar points out of no choice? That being said, I do acknowledge and did enjoy your story.
Some parts were word for word. I very much enjoyed your article too. Thank you for linking it!
And some of the statements in Zachary’s article seem be taken from my writings…z
Dear Will – Please direct us to your work so we can take a look. This topic has been very popular. We will gladly add your link to the body of the article and direct readers there for additional insight. Best, Rhonda Fabian, digital editor. Email: rfabian@kosmosjournal.org
Dear Zachary – Thank you for this note. Of course we always try to verify the original author of a blog post. And most of the time we coordinate directly with the author, which was not the case with this reprint. I would be happy to add your link to the body of the article, if you are amenable. Best, Rhonda Fabian You can also reach me directly at rfabian@kosmosjournal.org.
absolutely, please do share mine (and will’s!) while will is one of the preeminent experts in this discussion – and i certainly learned and looked to his work as evidence and guidance, this piece took direct paragraphs from mine. i think will is trying to assert that somehow i’ve also copied verbatim actual paragraphs and that is patently false. i worked with harlan pruden, the editors with native peoples magazine, and did all the interviews myself for the folks i incorporated into my story, which was more a personal narrative.
Dear Zachary – We have updated this article to properly credit your work by reprinting your original article: http://www.kosmosjournal.org/news/two-spirit-the-story-of-a-movement-unfolds/. I am deeply sorry your work was not properly referenced in the blog we originally reposted. Kosmos regrets the mixup and any inconvenience that may have been caused to our readers, Native Peoples Magazine, or to you.
We have reprinted your article here: http://www.kosmosjournal.org/news/two-spirit-the-story-of-a-movement-unfolds/ It is on our home page.
Hi my name is Steven Barrios (Long Time Holy Rain ) I would just like to clarify one thing, that is Harlan Prudent does not speak for or represent the Twospirit people. He has done some very bad things to some of the societies .There are 18 societies that have formed a group to stop him from what he is doing.her is doing a lot of things for his own gain.
We have updated the article with the proper, original content by Mr. Pullin. It can be found on our home page and here: http://www.kosmosjournal.org/news/two-spirit-the-story-of-a-movement-unfolds/
WOW! Fabulous article…. Definitely sharing this.
This is a wonderful and loving piece I am sharing to educate people to this spiritual way of being.
It wasn’t just North (and South) American indigenous people who held ‘two spirited’ people in highest regard [ I prefer the term ‘psychologically androgynous’ – the term ‘two spirit’ still participates in a perceptual duality that isn’t accurately reflective of the people it is applied to…people who are _neither_ male or female psychologically, rather than _both_ male and female psychologically. The people that this article describes are something all together different from male or female ]. The same was true for indigenous cultures throughout Asia, Eurasia, Micronesia, and Africa.
The reason psychologically androgynous people were given great respect and important ritual roles, and were frequently trained as healers, leaders, and holders of the oral tradition, is rooted in the idea / perception / phenomenon of ‘in-between-ness’. Briefly, in-between-ness’ was understood in two ways:
1. a reflection of the reality of existence, and
2. a transcendence or absence of duality…wholeness / balance / equilibrium .
Regarding #1 (a reflection of reality): every moment of our existence is in-between-ness’. There is no static moment because everything is always in flux, always changing. And there is no past or future…there is only this moment, which is an intermediate or transitional or liminal state of in-between-ness’ that is a reflection of infinite patterns and processes of cause and effect ( which is the organic mechanism of impermanence and interrelatedness). This understanding of the nature of existence was common around the world and was the foundation of all ancient oral traditions, social / moral codes, and personal development paths. It was science, and is confirmed by modern science.
Regarding #2 (a transcendence or absence of duality): Two spirited people, neither men nor women psychologically, were regarded as a manifestation of the non-dual nature of existence. Psychologically androgynous people have the ability to perceive the world through both female and male eyes (or in the absence of both from a non-dual perspective, which transcends / unites, dissolves the false dichotomies that duality constructs…male / female, earth / sky, us / nature, gay / straight, good / bad, us / them, subject / object, me / everything else, etc…). This state of non-dual perception, a manifestation and reflection of the interconnectedness and in-between-ness nature of existence, was highly valued and considered to be the pinnacle of perceptual awareness. Thus, ‘two spirited’ people, all over the world, were valued for their balanced perception of existence and way of being, as well as regarded as a biological / psychological manifestation of the nature of existence.
The ascendency of Christianity, the strategic dualistic conditioning, and aggressive / violent colonialism changed everything. Earth and sky were severed, male and female were polarized and female perception devalued, humans / nature and body / mind were divided. Time became linear and fragmented into past and future, with the present (in between moment) ignored and lost sight of. Woman were degraded and two spirited people (now sexualized as ‘homosexual’ and ‘gay’) were tortured and ostracized because they represented everything that the ruling class of the new world order were systematically erasing and destroying. This is why two spirited people (and gay people) have been painted as such a threat this side of Christianity, and why colonialism and Christianity so viciously attacked women and gay people…because their very existence shines a hard light on the tyranny of duality which has so effectively and thoroughly enslaved modern people and enabled the horrors of capitalism (including the degradation and poisoning of the fragile layer of life in Earth upon which we depend for the existence of our species) and the scourge of religious addiction that reinforces alienation and perceptual fragmentation, and that perpetuates a very profitable exploitation of humanity and nature.
Thank you for sharing, I’m so grateful for intelligent conversation.
Very good addition to this thread. Thank you.
Yes amazing addition to this thread Thak you
Surely many two-spirit people are in fact intrsex rather than transgender.
that is so untrue , I’ve been in the twospirit community for the over 20 years and have met only one intersexed person.
My son was two spirited. I knew from the time he was like one or two. He was the big part of opening my eyes to this. I have always known about the two spirited ones but he taught me so much more. I thank-you for putting this out for people to read. Very well written.
Thanks
From my understanding of myself as a Two Spirit woman, the Two in Two Spirit is not a duality but an acknowledgement of Indigenous world view and a queer identity.
The Spirit in Two Spirit acknowledges the human being’s purpose to be in Relation to Self, Family, Creation, Nation and to use one’s Gifts to work towards Balance and Harmony, respecting all creatures above, below, beyond….
Thank you for your insights. I live in Asheville, North Carolina near the Cherokee reservation. I also have had the pleasure of preforming blanket ceremonies for two-spirit couples, from various tribal nations. I studied both the history of two-spirit
individuals and the traditional blanket ceremony for straight couples. It was so invigorating to add to the ceremony elements that made so much relevance for the joining of a two-spirit couple.
While the Cherokee nation here does not sanction same-sex marriage, this hasn’t stopped couples from contacting me and getting married here and doing so in a traditional method that reflects their heritage.
I have always fallowed the red road way of life before I was of age to understand what that was. I am grateful for the respect,acceptance and spirituality I have found in the native world I have had the honor of experiencing in my life. I am truly a loving, respectful,accepting and spiritual steward of Mother Earth and do all that’s in my power to help heal, nurture,repair, restore and love all our Creator’s and Mother Earths gifts and creatures great and small, 2 and 4 legged in the human and animal world. May we all live as one in peace and harmony. Aho 🙂 <3
But it’s not really what we know of today as “gay,” right?
” … individuals who take on a gender status that is different from both men and women” is pretty much the definition of transgendered.
Some gay men may be culturally feminine and some gay women might be culturally masculine, and to that extent at least a little bit transgendered. But the definition of gay is man with man or woman with woman.
Two self-identified males (even if one or both were born with female genitals) / two self-identified females (even if one or both were born with male genitals) is arguably more to the definition of gay and less to two-spirited.
Example: often in the berdache tradition, the two-spirited men had feminine mannerisms and dressed in a culturally female way. This is closer to heterosexuality with one man and one woman, than it is to the gay paradigm of man on man or woman on woman.
Last time I checked all races of people come from the same ONE and we are all different shades of the Creator. there are some white looking folks in every group of people because of intermarriage and inter mingling. Guess what there are also white looking folks who are Indigenous or have Indigenous Heritage and Ancestry. So where do you really draw the line between Indigenous or not? DNA?? Blood quantums established by the European?? Res. folks????? I claim honor and respect my Indigenous Heritage. Did I grow up on the Res? NO I do respect my heritage, all of it. The term Two-Spirit is a beautiful description and very positive, it is one I most identify with, Gay, Two-Spirit it all means the same thing. European people refer to Gay people as less than, and damned to hell. Indigenous Nations adopted this term in 1990 at an Indigenous Gay and Lesbian gathering. Most Tribes use their own language to describe this type of person.
Thank you for this informative article. I know two spirits and they are they most beautiful people.
Learning about two-spirit people gave me a deeper understanding of myself. Even though my ancestors were from Europe, I think that two-spirit people probably exist all over the world. We just don’t always know who we are. Thank you for writing about this, and thanks to the other people who wrote about it as well.
I am Aniishinabeg from N. Minnesota and as a mother of Identical twin daughters my second born is Two Spirit. I try to instill in “them” that he/she is very special and how proud I am to be the mother of not only Identical twins but also a Two Spirit/Contrary!
I like this article except that is talks about the land bridge theory as something that actually happened. Most Indian communities reject the land bridge idea and find it contrary to their traditional teachings.
Very interesting! This I did not know, and once again the immigrant settlers forced their perceptions and beliefs upon our Native American culture. Though I don’t know if he addressed the LGBT aspect, Dr. Carl Jung espoused the embodiment of both the femine and masculine energy in everyone much in the manner of two spirits. Glad to see Native Americans are able to reclaim their culture, yet sad they have to work so hard to do so.
well this comes at a time when we are all maybe young in soul as in scared and seeking wisdom of those past not forgotten just waiting to be brought up for their life to mean once again as they lived it. I am as white as it gets not opposed to finding what gains me strength and understanding not only of different very unique and proud cultures but of my own path. My understanding is soul and spirit is different but in examples of difference is the medicine for two or whole groups of human species to harmonize with ourselves animals world and plants trees. It’s give and take and I am looking for wisdom which a proud first nation lady ironically or knowingly laid in front for me to soak up as I respect humans and we can all relate to as one together. Lets find more to share and be excited at what we have that’s different and celebrate it to replace those wounds which is gone only left as reminder but doesn’t need to be just hurt because if steps are taken from everyone then love shall move us as one without this new world order etc conspiracy but as a humanity that wants and asks for forgiveness amongst us all. We’re all hurt and I don’t mind finding my answer from a native legend lets get together and share what we got but remain who we are meant to be a loving accepting human and world everything in it big to small family that can love hurt heal as well as control and hurt which has been perfected for a bit too long now cheers love to all joe lets talk stories and lessons are why I’m here searching this place lets tell them as one no matter who’s place it’s welcome where I’m staying at and I go as far as to say it found me for a reason two spirits can come as one just like 8 billion could with love and forgiveness lets do what we can to start a positive solution thanks trudy first nation great country ambassidors and all us on earth love slowjoe thanks again find love
http://arc.lib.montana.edu/mpi/item/4978
Look up the work for John Fouch, a photographer at Fort Keogh in Montana.
This article brought me to tears! I gave birth to such a child, who is now transitioning to be a woman. During my labor 21 years ago, two hawks landed in the tree in our front yard and called out for hours. It was the first and only time those two totem birds appeared in our yard. May the blessings of the past and the visions of the future bring our people to wholeness again. Aho!
Ty soooo… inspiring! Aho my friend
Not all native tries had “two-spirit” people in fact only those that were patriarchal and which ascribed certain behaviors to the sexes. In more egalitarian societies, there was not sex “stereotypying” and men and women were not restricted to certain roles.
Two-spirits were not revered, they were ‘removed’, made “other” by calling them the opposite sex because it was deemed wrong for men to behave the way women did. There were very few first nations women who were “two-spirit”.
The cultures who allowed their people the full range of human behaviour and choice did not have two-spirit. Women were warriors and mothers. Men were warriors and fathers. The Dene were and are, notoriously prejudiced and partriarchal.
Finally, native peoples knew that women gave birth, and men did not.
This may be a very old article, but i thank you for offering an alternative for white people wanting to use two spirit. I have chosen Dual spirited as a way to see my existence.
open minded
A two spirit according to me, is someone that has 2 souls, and often times has a lover on the other side of this reality. Like myself.
A two spirit can embody the fem knowing and understanding or the male provider warrior aspects as spirit is undevided. So is the two spirit…thus like great spirit a two spirit can be what is needed in the moment. A triple fold being.
Sexual identity and orientation is not the essence of these two spirits.. Nor there cause, purpose or focus… If mortal humans of today want to create a link to a trully two spirited identity then self realization and purity of heart & mind and soul is in order and the unfolding spiritual gifts for the one that is married to the spirit world…by the time you self realize your two spirit identity the human physical parts & desire for sexual relationship is really not there concern or truth of purpose…..A two spirit according to me would view his gay brother as just that a gay human limited to the mortal world of objectification…non magical and quite blind to the cosmic intercourse of the mystical reality….
I was moved by this article. Thank-you for publishing it. I will pass it on. I’m so sorry by what my Christian ancestors did ( & still do) to ruin a beautiful Native American belief. I find myself ashamed to say that I am a Christian. I have recently changed to a monotheistic Christo-pagan. There is much more acceptance of all people, within this group.
Unfamiliar to most so affected by Christian colonizers who fought indigenous populations with the flag, guns and the Bible. http://www.kosmosjournal.org/news/life-in-the-between-the-beauty-and-importance-of-the-two-spirit-people/
Men and women who understood themselves as not “male” or “female” would have been valued and respected … unlike in our modern polarized perception.
Traditionally two-spirited people were born that way. They could be male or female and they were considered sacred by their families and their communities. There are two-spirited animals and plants in nature, so it is not wrong to be a two-spirited one in our world. Like the bees, two-spirited ones are a necessity to life. For example, seed plants produce fruit after bees pollinate them by transporting pollen from male to female flower parts. The sole purpose of drone bees is to mate with the queen, and her sole purpose is to produce eggs. Like the bee, two-spirited ones cannot take a partner or have children. They are special because they follow three sets of laws: male, female and spiritual ones. They are gifted people who are extremely intelligent and generally become pillars of the community. We do not have a right to judge or ridicule them. But, they have to be born that way, not because of sexual trauma, or promiscuity. As adults, some of them can carry a sacred pipe and rattle, they can become healers and medicine men or women, they can hold shaking tent lodges, and they can become teachers and protectors of the young men and women. They cannot hold certain ceremonies that require grandchildren such as the thirst dance (sun dance and rain dance) and horse dance. However, they are granted the same respect as a grandparent because of their wisdom and guidance. By law, they are not allowed to dress like the opposite gender and they are not allowed to turn anyone into a two-spirited one. If they become two-spirited as a result of sexual trauma they should attend a ceremony dealing with the event. During this ceremony, the healer will be assisted by two-spirited men or women so that person can leave the two-spirited world behind and go back to the way they were at birth. Two-spirited males and females did not come out of the closet as there was no secret about their sexuality. The term transgender is not a traditional one. First of all, it is the role of the parents and extended family members to socialize the child. A child should not be left with the task of thinking for themselves and making important decisions. If this happens the child may become confused by its environment. Ultimately, during this confusion, they think they own their body and they have the right to do what they want with it. Most transgenders, transsexuals, transvestites, and intersexed are happy with the role they play in society. However, they do not fit into the circle of life and they are not part of a natural law or the teachings of this land. Although their role is different than that found in an Aboriginal way of life we do not have a right to judge them. Traditional leaders and ceremonialists have always told our youth and adults that their body belongs to Creator and it is only on loan to them. Therefore, they cannot take their life through suicide, or make physical changes to a body that is on loan to them.
Very interesting, Robert. Many thanks for helping us to understand. Nancy Roof