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Ulysses ‘Butch’ Slaughter

Ulysses “Butch” Slaughter is a social entrepreneur, author, and filmmaker behind the powerful documentary series “Odyssey To Save Ulysses.” A recipient of The 2013 Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Award in Philadelphia, his expertise in difficult family reconciliations is the subject of the transformative documentary series “Reconciled” which he hosts and co-created with GRB Entertainment. The program pilot aired on The Oprah Winfrey Network in November 2012.

At the fragile age of 12, Mr. Slaughter listened as his mother Clarice was shot to death by his father Ulysses Grant Slaughter Sr. Emerging from his bedroom on June 25, 1978, he watched as his mother bled from two gunshot wounds to her head and take some of the last breaths of her life. Stepping over his mother’s fallen body that day was the first, most important act in his amazing odyssey toward forgiveness.

A high school graduate of Chicago’s Quigley Seminary South Preparatory High School, Mr. Slaughter pondered a future as a Catholic priest. Intrigued by existential theories and fate\free will concepts, he spent considerable time reflecting on the death of his mother, the sins of his father and the role of a supreme being in the interactions of humankind.

Mr. Slaughter served as a journalist in The United States Navy and holds a Master’s Degree from Lincoln University.

Mr. Slaughter is Founder of I Forgive University (IFU) an emerging human transformation project advocating forgiving as “The Ultimate Practice.”  Mr. Slaughter was the chief architect and Director for the OneTaste Reconciliation Council, a body of international consultants tasked with development of prevention, intervention and resolution policies for sex and intimacy practitioners.

Mr. Slaughter has appeared three times on The Dr. Phil Show and was recently interviewed by Suzanne Roberts for her CNN Headline News series“Seeking Solutions with Suzanne.” He recently completed his third book “Forgive: the new mantra and practice for Black Men.” 

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Forgive: The new practice and mantra for Black Men


At the fragile age of 12, Ulysses Slaughter listened as his mother Clarice was shot to death by his father Ulysses Grant Slaughter Sr. Emerging from his bedroom, he watched as life flowed out of his mother. Stepping over her body that day was the first act in his amazing odyssey toward forgiveness.


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